What’s your coping quotient?
When you genuinely feel connected, unconditionally loved, heard, encouraged, and appreciated then you have a safe place to fall and recharge. Remember just because you have a family doesn’t automatically create a supportive environment. If you can’t have a supportive biological family be sure and create a family of friends, coworkers, church, and community.
Exercise and physical activity are still one of the best ways to decrease stress. You increase cardio, deep breathing, and release tension in your muscles.
Be honest!
If you are more than five pounds over your ideal weight for your height and frame you are adding stress physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Being still and doing yoga, meditation, prayer and deep breathing have been shown through research to lower stress.
Starting with a healthy breakfast, eating low fat, a variety of food groups, proper amounts strengthen the immune system, raises energy, and decreases stress.
Over use of alcohol increases depression, slows metabolism, inhibits sound sleep, and is expensive.
(Also applies to surfing the Internet and playing on technology.) Too much TV wastes time, increases sedentary behavior, and creates isolation therefore leading to more stress.
This sounds contradictory yet there is great value in nurturing yourself with something weekly that you truly enjoy.
Having a special room or safe haven in your home reduces stress.
Planning your days and weeks, having a scheduling system, staying focused on your priorities and continuing to improve time management add productivity and decrease stress.
Smoking has a short term positive effect of giving stimulation or euphoria but long term creates health problems that create more stress.
Caffeine like nicotine has short term benefits and long term consequences. Drinking more water helps your body and mind cope with stress.
Bringing work home and taking home to work both increase stress.
Taking sleep medication, chemicals, or any medication increases side effects and potential stress.
1. What were your strengths and weaknesses about your coping style?